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I’ve been a minimalist since in utero so this week’s newsletter is spot on for me! As I am a writer covering beauty, fashion and wellness I try far too many products but stay true to a YCOHO list. My forever swoons include:

- Thrivecausmetics tube mascara; love the look and the founder’s loving mission

- Merit the minimalist; minimal makeup but have four or more at all times as I leave one in car, one in bag, one in bathroom etc.

- Jones Road Miracle Balm

- Beautycounter vitamin C serum

- Goop dark spot sleepmilk

- Saltyface self tanner + liquid bronzer

- Editrix cleanser + microneedle at home kit

- Look Optic readers

- Nili Lotan Paris Pants

- Veronica Beard dickey + blazer

- Sambas

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I am 10000% need to try Jones Road Miracle Balm! How did you pick the color?

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I selected the two that would seemingly suit me year round best — Flushed (for pink cheeks) and Bronze (stunning with or without being sun kissed myself). The container is everlasting, so it was genius that she had a mini's pop-up collection last holiday to try shades...and be able to get through a product. (side note - You can get mini's with a kit now)

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I just purchased Jones Road miracle balm last week and am on day 2 of using it but am still.teying to figure it out. I think I may be applying too much.

I also bought their What The Foundation and concealer stick absolutely LOVE both.

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A little goes a long way!

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I've read mixed reviews about the saltyface self tanner but have been thinking of trying it - what do you love about it?

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I wrote a piece for The Quality Edit about the brand — my love for it, product details, etc but in a nutshell for me I find it superior in even coverage with no smell or streaks and I love the accompanying tools. https://www.thequalityedit.com/articles/saltyface-self-tanner

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I’m excited to read your thoughts on this! Thanks for sharing

x

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Let me know if you try it! I also wrote briefly about the new liquid bronzer here. I don’t wear much makeup — and am turning 55 — so I love a little color with hydration! https://www.thequalityedit.com/articles/best-products-february-2024

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Thanks so much - will read the article right this minute!

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Since writing the piece, I have also fallen for their new liquid bronzer which is a wash off at the end of the day tanning liquid that gives a fantastic sunkissed glow — without the commitment!

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I love the idea of having a Merit set in each spot and not ever having to move a makeup bag! Their makeup bag is the best too.

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I have never explored their makeup bag!

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Genius concept-- love this so much! Do you have a style name for the Dries pants? How is the sizing? You've sold me on them-- they are fab on you!

My personal faves: Negative wireless bras, Natori bliss underwear, Uniqlo tshirts, Augustinus Bader rich cream, Armani luminous silk foundation.

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I think the sizing runs a little generous. Net A Porter had the measurements for each size, which is helpful!

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I am 99.9% sure it's the Dries Pamplona ;-)

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Sunday mornings are my favorite thanks to your newsletter, Hillary! Thank you for putting out such great content every week!

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It is truly truly truly my pleasure!

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Hillary - I genuinely look forward to this newsletter every week! When I woke up yesterday I thought it was Sunday and I was gutted when I realised it was Saturday the newsletter wasn’t out! Genuinely! So thank you.

I’m going to look at Doen as my friend also raves about them, but I am a curvy 5”1 and sometimes feel drowned in that much fabric… but I can see the versatility for sure.

Also I love the MG Tote but I live in a rainy climate so I just can’t do it 😭 it’s far too open unfortunately.

This is a long comment, sorry!

My YCOHO’s (this really made me think! So thank you!);

Trousers - a British brand I’m not sure if you can get over there - Marks and Spencer (M&S) : their pure linen trousers. Like £25 and THE BEST! Other linen brands I’ve tried have worn through at the thighs (TMI - chafe! Sorry!) but these are the best. Such good quality for the price. Please check them out next time you’re in London! The brand has a reputation for being for the older lady but actually they are crushing it. Their silk and cashmere is also excellent. https://www.marksandspencer.com/linen-rich-wide-leg-cropped-trousers/p/clp60650301

Handbag - my Whistles cross body Vida bag is excellent. £160. https://www.whistles.com/row/product/vida-crossbody-bag-30006.html

SPF - la Roche posay anthelios hydrating SPF (not the green mattifying one). Like £20 and the best I’ve found. Doesn’t hurt my eyes and is really good.

https://frenchpharmacy.com/products/la-roche-posay-anthelios-uvmune-400-hydrating-cream-spf50

Bronzer / contour - the Chanel bronze universale. I’m literally on my fifth and I think it lasts me about a year. Blends so beautifully. No competition. https://www.chanel.com/ca-en/makeup/p/185390/healthy-glow-bronzing-cream-cream-gel-bronzer-for-a-healthy-sun-kissed-glow/

Mascara - beautypie tubing mascara! https://www.beautypie.com/products/wrap-star-tubing-mascara

Serum - also beautypie, their triple hyraluronic serum. I’m also on my fourth or fifth. My skin DRINKS it up. I’ve tried others and they just dont match up. Plus this is an excellent price. https://www.beautypie.com/products/triple-hyaluronic-acid-serum

Tops - I recently bought from Sézane for the first time - a silk shirt from their collection with Pangea. it is beautiful. So I’d continue to buy those because I really think silk works for so many occasions and can be dressed up or down! https://www.sezane.com/us/product/pierro-shirt-sezane-x-pangea/green-flag-print#size-2

Summer sandals - I thought I’d hate these but they are SO comfortable! I have wide feet and high arches so love the ones you posted but I just can’t wear a shoe now with no support 😭 these are Arizona love. (I get the black as it feels more subtle…!) https://arizonalove.store/products/trekky-black-bandana

I could go on but I will stop there 😂

Can I ask for your help finding a denim shirt, please? I seem to be really picky - there is so much on the “oversized” market out there but like I said I’m 5”1 and curvy so I dont need the extra fabric 😂

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I love this long comment! MG also makes a soft zip tote FWIW! I feel you on the fabric, but generally it's really lightweight and floats which helps IMHO. Also: the WWW & Marie Claire UK teams have said the M&S linen trousers are so great!!! I've never tried that La Roche sunscreen, making a note to do so! Beautypie is sooo excellent. Will keep my eye open for denim shirt. My most recent one is Gap and snaps instead of buttons which might not be your vibe? But they're usually my first stop. Will look though!

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Oooh no I absolutely want snaps so I’ll check that out, thank you! Didn’t think to check gap!

M&S is “the dogs bollocks”- as we say! Please let me know what you think!

Would also be intrigued in your opinion on luggage, please, Hillary - I’m getting sucked into monos (but I think it’ll scratch so easily!) and away - but they’re so expensive I’m worried I’m getting sucked in by the marketing?! Or please let me know if you’ve already done it! I’ve done a deep dive into the reviews but they’re so hit and miss!

Thank you!

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Ooh thanks for Beauty Pie tip. I’ve been on the fence about trying the tubing mascara.

As a kid we did shopping at M&S when we passed through from Middle East.

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I bloody LOVE beautypie Kate and you guys can now get it in America! It’s so good! Also the candles are excellent - only £20 and I actually think better quality than Jo Malone/ on par with Diptyque!

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Yup I have an annual membership! The skincare is so good

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Ah- I’ll shut up! 😂 it’s so good isn’t it!

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I love this concept and I look forward to your newsletter every week!!! I purchased the Roz products when you mentioned them in another newsletter and I LOVE THEM!! I will definitely get the spray. I literally only shop the items you highlight....the trust is real Hillary Kerr, thank you!

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ahhhhhh this makes me so very happy!!! I truly love Roz so much it's bonkers. Mara keeps making hits; it's nuts!

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- Elta UV clear sunscreen. I always come back to this one. No white cast, make up doesn’t pill

- OPI Big Apple Red - wore it in my 20s, still wearing now. Classic

- Bioderma shower oil.

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That is my fave OPI polish shade too! I need to try Elta again; random but I remember it's Drew Barrymore's fave! What is shower oil? Oh wait, I can google that.

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What a fun idea! My top YCOHOs:

-Better Than Sex Mascara. I discovered this in high school and foolishly keep trying others, though nothing in ten years has compared.

-Nars Creamy Concealer Stick. Simply the best.

-Glossier Ultralip in "Like." My "my lips but better" and one of the only lipsticks I have used to the bottom again and again. I think I've gone through ten tubes.

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I've never tried that Nars concealer!!! Thank you for the suggestion!!!

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So glad you mentioned K. Jacques. They are honestly the BEST made sandals - a true St Tropez icon. Mine are still going strong ten years later too.

Same on the cashmere! X

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They're just so comfortable and simple and last and last and last and last!

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Came back to this a week later to check all the comments I missed. Wow. So many things! I love this community. Thinking further about my YCOHO, I have a few contributions to share:

- nail care: manucurist is the ultimate nail option. I have tried everything under the sun. Their flash line in particular is amazing. It applies like a gel (with a lamp), but wears and removes like a normal polish. And it’s clean. It’s phenomenal. The standard line and treatments are perfect for quick manis and when you want to take a polish break, but still feel put together. P.s. their customer service is five stars.

- flexible hairspray: Living Proof Flex Hairspray. It does the job of your standard hairspray, but doesn’t leave your hair crunchy, offers natural movement and smells lovely. It’s perfect for the gentle hold (like when you’re growing out your bangs) but you still desire movement.

- bath: OSEA Vagus Nerve Bath Oil, oh how I love you. I love many bath products, but I’ve purchased this product at least 7 times in the past year or so. It leaves your skin silky soft, smells light and calming, and although the bottle says “pour generously”, you can make a little go a long way.

Okay, I’m so late no one will likely read this but it took me a minute to consider my “only one”!

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❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Blazers - anine bing (several styles!)

Tshirts - the viral Walmart ones!!

Underwear - cotton Natori or one size fits all Chantelle briefs!

Pants - for work, commute or bloated days: stretchy kick flares ( mashburn are my favs)

Socks - balega

Shoes - 327 new balance

Sunscreen - elta md

I love the doen ischia dress too (most recent purchase) and wear doen for so many occasions

Skin and hair care in flux

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WHAT ARE THE VIRAL WALMART TEES?!?

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I came here for this same question! 😆

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Love this🥰

Sunscreen….Elta tinted

Lipstick…Merit in Cabo or Baby

Mascara…Maybelline The Falsies followed by a coat of L’Oréal Voluminous.

Shampoo…Bumble and Bumble seaweed. I’ve had off and on issues with my scalp for 20 years and this has been the only thing that keeps it straight and doesn’t strip my hair color.

Body lotion….Neutrogena Hydroboost gel

Hair tool…Dyson airwrap. It’s pricey but takes the place of a drawer full of hair tools. I have no idea why it’s so good but it’s worth every pricey penny.

Summer/Spring everyday shoe…Oofos I can wear these for 12+ hrs with no issues.

Fall/Winter everyday shoe…Birkenstock Buckley clog

Panties…Soma vanishing edge. You’ll never have a wedgie again!

Tote…Parker Thatch Parker in denim with red leather handles. It holds a ton and goes with everything.

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I'm so interested in the airwrap!!! And you are the second or third person to say Elta. I need to get on it.

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White T- Anine Bing Lili

Denim- Mother Denim High Rollers for life❤️

Lips- Violette FR Bisou Balm- so good but Amour Fou is perfection

Cheeks- Violette FR Bisou Blush- fool proof flush

Mascara- Thrive tubing- no flaking or smudging

Shampoo- K-19 clarifying shampoo

Skin- Nuxe Body Oil

Room Scent- or I suppose island scent- Astier de Villate Namche Bazar incense FOREVERRRR

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I don't know this incense!!!! I also love Violette sm.

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My favorite way to start my Sunday is coffee in bed and reading the newsletter! I bought the anine bing skirt because of you and can attest it’s perfect!

-cle de peau concealer. Lasts forever, goes on smooth, lasts all day and brightens like nothing else!

-crown affair hair clips. I have used every hair clip in the book and nothing has been able to hold my hair like these. Great for thin, thick, coarse alllll the things!

-beek finch sandals. my go-to 100% of the time

-111 skin black diamond face mask

-Vince little boy/essential crew neck tee. It’s the PERFECT fitted white tee, holds up in the wash, doesn’t lose its shape. Fitted but not too tight I’m obsessed

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Cle concealer for life!!! I need to try the Vince t-shirt. It sounds like a dream.

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I love trying new beauty and skincare things, but there are some categories that I've stopped shopping around for because nothing beats these standbys:

-Bobbi Brown No Smudge mascara-- I live in a hot and humid climate and it is the only mascara reliably stays in place and doesn't end up under my eyes

-Biore UV Aqua Rich Watery Essence sunscreen--I sweat a lot and this does not run into my eyes and it doesn't feel like anything on my skin

-Nuxe Reve de Miel lip balm in the pot for overnight healing

-Aquaphor for cuticles and other dry bits

-Elemis cleansing balm (the smell!)

Other random YCOHOs:

-Natori Bliss Cotton Girl Briefs-- comfy undies that are also reasonably sexy

-Ray Ban New Wayfarers (polarized)

-Birkenstock Madrid Sandals (original style, not the big buckle kind)

-Yeti travel mug with the mag-slider lid

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I love those Ray Bans and the Yeti too! I have been in the market for comfy undies that aren't excessively granny, to thank you!!!

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+1 for Natori cotton bliss undies

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I love this idea, but I’ve just realized I’m not really discerning enough to truly have a YCOHO. The only exception I can think of is the Ole Henriksen skin barrier strengthening moisturizer. My skin absolutely loves it and just drinks it up.

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YCOHO is perfect for single products! The fact that you love the Ole THAT much makes me want to try 10x more!

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God this is good

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I know you are but what am I? Ahahahahhaha.

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